Two homes.
One calm path.

A shared schedule both parents trust, messages that stay civil, and costs agreed before they're spent — with your mediator or solicitor already in the room when you need them.

From the team behind The Family Mediation Project — over 1,000 families supported.

Now live

The app is here — download OurPath and get set up in minutes.

Free to download. One subscription covers both parents — you pay in the app.

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What you get

The arguments you can design out

Most co-parenting friction isn't disagreement — it's two people working from different information. So we put the information in one place.

One schedule, not two

Handovers, holidays and school runs in a calendar you both see. Swaps are requested and accepted in the app, so "you never told me" stops being a conversation.

Civil messaging

One kept thread. Tone assist offers calmer wording before you send.

Costs agreed first

Ask before a big expense. Splits by your agreement. No money moves through us.

The child's record

Allergies, GP, class, shoe size — shared, so nobody's texting at 8am Monday.

A parenting plan you both agreed

Build it together or bring in your mediator's. Either way it's versioned — neither of you can quietly rewrite it.

Exports that hold up

A dated PDF of any period, fingerprinted so it can be shown not to have been altered — if things ever go further than you'd like.

Built for solo parents too

No co-parent on the account? The whole app still works for you alone — and switches to shared mode on its own the moment they join.

Handovers on the record

Log each pickup and drop-off as it happens. Timestamped and permanent — a calm, factual record, not a message-thread argument.

Help near you

A searchable directory of family solicitors, mediators, counsellors and support groups — filter by area and by LGBTQ+-friendly.

Share your journal, safely

Keep a private journal — then hand a solicitor a read-only link when you need to. Time-limited, and you can revoke it any time.

Inclusive by design

Pronouns on your profile and support for every family shape — because separated families don't come in one template.

Why it works

Two households, one source of truth

Not his version and her version. One record you both wrote, that a professional can read at a glance.

Home A

Your household

  • "I said Friday, not Saturday"
  • Receipt sent after the fact
  • Kit left at the wrong house
Home B

Their household

  • "You never told me that"
  • Different calendar entirely
  • Argues the cost after
OurPath sits between them — agreed once, visible to both, kept on record.
AI assist

A quiet assistant for the admin of it

Not a chatbot — a helper woven into the moments that are usually typing, deciphering or biting your tongue. It drafts and fills in; you always check, and you always decide. It never characterises either parent, and it never sees another family’s data.

And six more, just as capable
Drafts your plan wording Plain English in, neutral mutual wording out — you edit it, you propose it.
Message → calendar date “Friday at 5” in a message becomes an entry — you confirm before it’s added.
Auto-files pasted details GP, allergies, kit sizes — a pasted blob becomes tidy Info Bank entries.
Guided start Describe your situation in a sentence; get a calm, neutral starting point.
Neutral money summary The month’s shared costs in clerk voice — totals, settled, outstanding.
Prefill from your agreement Your mediator uploads the signed plan and the whole case sets itself up.

Same rule everywhere: it drafts, you decide.

Straight with you

What this isn't

It isn't legal advice. OurPath is a tool for organising shared parenting. It won't tell you your rights, and it isn't a substitute for a solicitor or a mediator.

It isn't a surveillance tool. Neither parent gets to monitor the other. What you write to each other stays between you — professionals see that things happened, not what was said.

It isn't finished. This is a beta. Some of it will be rough, and we'd rather tell you that now than have you find out.

Pricing

One plan, both parents, no per-seat trick.

One household plan — split between you both. Each parent pays their own share, never full price twice.

Annual Best value · 2 months free
£129.99 / year

Split between both parents — you each pay your share.

Pay for the year and get 2 months free versus paying month to month. Each parent still pays only their own share.
Monthly
£12.99 / month

The same household plan, paid month to month. Cancel any time.

Each parent pays only their own share — never the full price twice.
Everything included

Every feature.
Both parents.
One subscription.

No per-seat charge. No feature tiers. The whole household, covered by a single plan.

01 Grounded in mediation
  • Your mediation plan, made operational
  • Your mediator, one message away
  • Fluent in UK family law — MIAM, CMS, term dates
  • Mediators can seed your case from the agreement
02 The everyday, handled
  • One calendar, seamless swaps
  • Messaging that keeps its composure
  • Every cost agreed before it's incurred
  • Every handover logged and timestamped
  • A record that stands up in court
  • An impartial monthly ledger
  • Works solo — switches to shared when your co-parent joins
03 The admin, delegated
  • Translates your court order into plain English
  • Describe your schedule; it builds itself
  • Plain words in, plan wording out
  • Messages become arrangements, automatically
  • Paste anything — it files itself
04 Calm, by design
  • Replies drafted to de-escalate (BIFF)
  • Snap a receipt; the costs log themselves
  • Your week, distilled
  • Your record, on the record — just ask
  • A private journal — share read-only with a solicitor
  • Local help near you — solicitors, mediators, support
  • Inclusive by design — pronouns, every family shape
  • Begin in your own words