Two homes.
One calm path.
A shared schedule both parents trust, messages that stay civil, and costs agreed before they're spent — with your mediator or solicitor already in the room when you need them.
From the team behind The Family Mediation Project — over 1,000 families supported.
Calmer co‑parenting,
now in your pocket.
Download OurPath, invite your co-parent, and you’re both set up in minutes. iPhone is on its way.
- Free to download
- One plan covers both parents
- You pay in the app
The arguments you can design out
Most co-parenting friction isn't disagreement — it's two people working from different information. So we put the information in one place.
One schedule, not two
Handovers, holidays and school runs in a calendar you both see. Swaps are requested and accepted in the app, so "you never told me" stops being a conversation.
Civil messaging
One kept thread. Tone assist offers calmer wording before you send.
Costs agreed first
Ask before a big expense. Splits by your agreement. No money moves through us.
The child's record
Allergies, GP, class, shoe size — shared, so nobody's texting at 8am Monday.
A parenting plan you both agreed
Build it together or bring in your mediator's. Either way it's versioned — neither of you can quietly rewrite it.
Exports that hold up
A dated PDF of any period, fingerprinted so it can be shown not to have been altered — if things ever go further than you'd like.
Built for solo parents too
No co-parent on the account? The whole app still works for you alone — and switches to shared mode on its own the moment they join.
Handovers on the record
Log each pickup and drop-off as it happens. Timestamped and permanent — a calm, factual record, not a message-thread argument.
Help near you
A searchable directory of family solicitors, mediators, counsellors and support groups — filter by area and by LGBTQ+-friendly.
Share your journal, safely
Keep a private journal — then hand a solicitor a read-only link when you need to. Time-limited, and you can revoke it any time.
Inclusive by design
Pronouns on your profile and support for every family shape — because separated families don't come in one template.
Two households, one source of truth
Not his version and her version. One record you both wrote, that a professional can read at a glance.
Your household
- "I said Friday, not Saturday"
- Receipt sent after the fact
- Kit left at the wrong house
Their household
- "You never told me that"
- Different calendar entirely
- Argues the cost after
One calm record — on every screen you use
The same schedule, messages and costs on your phone, your iPad and your Apple Watch. Whichever you pick up, it's the one record — nothing to copy across, nothing out of date.
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iPhone & AndroidThe whole app, in your pocket.
iPadRoom to see the whole month.
Apple WatchToday, handovers and quick replies — on your wrist.
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With you
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Records the time for both of you.
The day, on your wrist
- Handover check-in, time-stamped for both of you.
- Quick replies, without reaching for your phone.
- Today and tomorrow, at a glance.
Works alongside the OurPath app on your iPhone. Longer messages and plan changes stay on your phone.
A quiet assistant for the admin of it
Not a chatbot — a helper woven into the moments that are usually typing, deciphering or biting your tongue. It drafts and fills in; you always check, and you always decide. It never characterises either parent, and it never sees another family’s data.
Same rule everywhere: it drafts, you decide.
What this isn't
It isn't legal advice. OurPath is a tool for organising shared parenting. It won't tell you your rights, and it isn't a substitute for a solicitor or a mediator.
It isn't a surveillance tool. Neither parent gets to monitor the other. What you write to each other stays between you — professionals see that things happened, not what was said.
It isn't finished. Some of it will be rough, and we'd rather tell you that now than have you find out.
One plan, both parents, no per-seat trick.
One household plan — split between you however you agree, even one of you covering it all. Never full price twice.
The same household plan, paid month to month. Cancel any time.
Came to OurPath through a mediator or solicitor? They will have sent you a link that applies the 20% referral rate automatically — on whichever plan you choose, for three years. How the discount works.
Every feature.
Both parents.
One subscription.
No per-seat charge. No feature tiers. The whole household, covered by a single plan.
- Your mediation plan, made operational
- Your mediator, one message away
- Fluent in UK family law — MIAM, CMS, consent orders
- Mediators can seed your case from the agreement
- One calendar, seamless swaps
- Messaging that keeps its composure
- Every cost agreed before it's incurred
- Every handover logged and timestamped
- A record that stands up in court
- An impartial monthly ledger
- Works solo — switches to shared when your co-parent joins
- On iPhone, iPad, Apple Watch and Android
- Translates your court order into plain English
- Describe your schedule; it builds itself
- Plain words in, plan wording out
- Messages become arrangements, automatically
- Paste anything — it files itself
- Replies drafted to de-escalate (BIFF)
- Snap a receipt; the costs log themselves
- Your week, distilled
- Your record, on the record — just ask
- A private journal — share read-only with a solicitor
- Local help near you — solicitors, mediators, support
- Inclusive by design — pronouns, every family shape
- Begin in your own words